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There is a quiet hurt in being merely tolerated—present, but not counted; included, but not embraced. They say they want you, but they really don’t. That hurt is the space where you shrink, question your value, and settle—because you believe that’s all you’re worth.

But Scripture reminds us: that’s not your portion.

“You are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession…” (1 Peter 2:9).

God never relates to us from obligation; He moves toward us in love. And if we are made in His image, our relationships should reflect that same intentionality. Being “wanted” isn’t about ego—it’s about alignment. Alignment with spaces, people, and assignments where your presence is received with joy, not reluctance.

Ask God for courage to release relationships where you are only accommodated, not celebrated. Choose environments that mirror heaven’s posture toward you. Not every room deserves your staying power.

Lastly, know you are worthy and worthy of more. When you truly understand that you are loved by God and that your identity is in Him, you refuse people’s leftover affirmations.

So let this be your gentle but firm reminder: You do not have to remain where you are merely tolerated. Trust God and seek His plan for you to be and have more.

Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewal of your mind . . . Romans 12:2 ESV

I’m somewhat back in the land of the online living—heyyy! I joined many of you at the start of the year focused on my walk with Christ—a dedicated food fast and prayer were at the core with less online/social media presence, less TV, etc., and more focus on the Word and the disciplines and things of God. He is so good to lead us to Himself for deeper faith. The fasting season isn’t over as I’m participating in the SEEK26 fast led by Alfred Street Baptist Church and Pastor Dr. Howard-John Wesley. What a journey so far—daily prayer at 7:00 a.m., devotionals, and an overall pursuit of living, looking, and loving like Christ, being conformed to His image, choosing to do the right thing all the time.

And what blessings so far! In my work, since Jan. 1, I’ve booked several new projects (event videography, flyer design, etc.), am finalizing bookings into the spring and summer, and am prayerfully bringing other ideas to fruition. And God has bestowed other blessings—not just for me but for others as well. Y’all, have I already said it?? If not, God is good good! I’m so thankful. I’m getting inquiries left and right. Building not just to be building but because I’ve been called to. Making the work work! Now booking—how can I serve you?

Listen, if you want to join us in the SEEK fast, it’s not too late! There are 40,000 participants who’ve joined the journey—folks praying and seeking God’s will, trying to make a life change, desiring to live for God fully.

Live, look, love. Like Christ. Let’s go!

Be strong and courageous… for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go.— Joshua 1:9

The year ahead may hold blessings, surprises, and challenges you can’t yet see. Here at MELCHEE and in this work, we know firsthand about such things. But our God is the God of every tomorrow! And a spirit of fierce faith is what will get you through all of the all. An unwavering confidence that God is who He says He is will always prove to be the right path.

To walk in fierce faith is to anchor your heart in His promises, even when the winds of life blow hard. It’s choosing worship over worry, obedience over hesitation, and trust over fear. It is believing that if God brought you this far, He won’t leave you now.

As you step into the new year, may your faith rise, and may you walk boldly into the many blessings God has in store. Decide to believe!