Guest Post: “Are You Catching or Being Caught?”

In last week’s post, I shared the life-changing experience I had at She Speaks 2015, a conference for women faith writers and speakers hosted by Proverbs 31 Ministries. I learned so much and am now so encouraged to continue to serve through words.

The best part of the conference was gathering with so many other women dedicated to God and sharing His message through words. I’m pleased to introduce you to Adrian Jessen, blogger at Adrianjessen.com. Her post Are You Catching or Being Caught? is one of many where she shares her love for God, fitness, and nature. I hope you’ll be inspired as I was…

Catching or being caught

This week my husband and I celebrated our 11th wedding anniversary. We’re different than most so instead of heading to a plush hotel and enjoying a couple’s massage or getting all dolled up to visit our favorite fancy restaurant, we loaded up our kayaks and bikes and headed east.

We had an awesome time paddling on the beautiful Pungo Creek. We even did a little kayak fishing! While fishing I had this thought:

Are you catching or being caught?

We went out a few times with no luck. At the beginning of our last morning it seemed like we were going to have the same experience. Fish were literally jumping out of the water all around us (I thought they were going to jump in my boat.). But they were not interested at all in our shiny, fluttery bait – we were not catching!

Then…(the suspense is killing you, I know) we finally caught a couple of striped bass.

Victory!

Robbie with fish

We were super excited! I mean, look at that grin on his face!

Then probably about 200 yards away we saw a ton of fish jumping out of the water. We paddled over and discovered a huge school of gar were enjoying a virtual feeding frenzy, jumping and splashing all over the place.

We would cast and reel in. Cast and reel in. As quick as we could get that bait back out there, we were casting and reeling.

And then – you guessed it – VICTORY!

Adrian with gar

We both finally reeled one in.

Then I thought how we are so much like those gar. As we paddled around, my husband said he saw thousands of tiny baitfish under him that the gars were feeding on.

They had a more than ample supply of real food, real fish all around them. But then when we distracted them with our shinier and more visually appealing bait, they were distracted from what God had provided them, and we snagged them with our hooks.

I think that happens a lot of times in our lives as well.

God has provided us with everything we need. Right here. Right now. All around us.

But we get distracted. Everyone is trying, too. It seems there just can’t possibly be enough blessings to go around.

“Surely what is around me isn’t enough.”

Then we see that shiny, more attractive thing that we think we’re searching for, and before you know it – we’re caught.

We get snagged and are pulled away.

Now, we were just doing some catch-and-release fishing, but in life that’s not always the case.

We go after the things we think will bring us happiness. We go after something that looks more appealing. We go after the newest, shiniest thing.

Only to find that thing wasn’t what we needed after all. That thing was merely a false hope that sometimes, unfortunately, leads to some pretty negative consequences.

So, what’s this got to do with you?

Well, can you take a minute and reflect on your life? What areas do you feel like you’re constantly searching, chasing the next thing?

Your job? Relationships? Finances? Health?

You think you’ve almost got it figured out and then something different gets your attention, and you go chasing after that one.

If you don’t know what I’m talking about, I’m excited for you, but I sure know what that feels like. And, I know it’s exhausting! So are you catching or being caught?

Let’s all make a decision right now.

After all, Jesus himself reminds us,

“What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul?…”   Matthew 16:26 NIV

Let’s agree together right now to stop chasing those things the world promises will make us happy and trust God for the things HE promises will bring us true joy. Maybe then we can avoid getting hooked by the world.

Will you agree to that with me? Let’s do it!

Let’s Get FIT Together!

Adrian Jessen is a speaker, blogger, author, and transformed follower of Jesus Christ. And, a health and fitness fanatic! Her mission: to empower people to pursue a healthy and active lifestyle – mind, body, & soul – by providing the training, resources, and encouragement needed to succeed.

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Follow her on Twitter and Facebook as she shares her expertise based on over 15 years of experience in the health care and fitness fields, personal experiences, and the truth of God’s word in hopes that you grow into the best YOU possible. 

Photo credits: Adrian Jessen. This post originally appeared on Adrianjessen.com. Used with permission.

Let God Define Your Treasure: She Speaks 2015

“She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue.” Proverbs 31:26 NIV

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What God has for me, it is for me. Those were the words impressed in my spirit at the end of two of the most glorious, joy-filled conference days I have ever experienced. She Speaks 2015, a conference for women faith writers and speakers and hosted by Proverbs 31 Ministries, was more than a conference – it was a gathering of faith, and water for those of us thirsting. It.was.worship.

When I signed up, I didn’t know what to expect, but I knew deep within that I wanted and needed it. When you have a soul need, truly thirsty for something, God will send it in a package so full of gift. At least, that’s how I felt. Looking back on it, I’m still in awe, and my soul is satisfied.

So what exactly did we do there? Glad you asked. There was praise. Both days, before any session began, we lifted voice in song to God. We prayed, raised hands, and then sang some more. There was the Word preached. We were reminded on day 1 by P31 president Lysa TerKeurst that the first part of our calling is to be with God, then be sent out by God. There was the Word inspired. “Let God define your treasure,” implored speaker Whitney Capps as the conference came to a close.

There was the learning, absolutely. On the writer’s track (vs. the speaker’s track), I gleaned from sessions on how to write a book, how to create graphics for blog posts, why we need to write like poets, and more. Practical and timely.

And the people. I met so many beautiful spirits in women who are committed to God and committed to spreading His word. They became my sisters whom I will cherish forever. I’m thrilled to introduce you to three of them: Adrian Jessen, Hope Venetta, and Erin Blake. I’m even more excited to feature them throughout September here on New Day. Please come back and share in the gift God has given them to write. In the meantime, check out their blogs!

Proverbs 31 Ministries has changed the landscape for me not only as a writer, but as a woman of faith. I appreciate all God has done and continues to do through this great ministry. Please check their web spaces through the links below and delight in all that is offered!

Lastly, I’m so encouraged to continue on this path of ministry through words. I’m a previous self-publisher of a Christian magazine called PRAISE!, and I’ve found renewed focus to continue that effort here on New Day. Additionally, as an extension of my writing, I soon will be offering blog consultation and editorial services to other aspiring bloggers and writers who are called to this path and ready to share as God has led. Shaping your space can be daunting in the beginning as you’re preparing, researching, studying, and organizing your thoughts and plans. That’s where I can help – let’s work together to get you on your way and put the right touches on your writing ministry! Full service details and rates will be available soon.

Thank you always for supporting New Day. I pray that your spirits are refreshed and that you find God in a whole new light through the words offered here.

Proverbs 31 Ministries links:

About – the what, who and why behind P31

Main site – links to speaker blogs, studies, devotionals, bookstore

Meet Lysa TerKeurst, P31 president – bio, topics, blog

Whitney Capps, speaker – bio, topics, blog

COMPEL Training – “COMPEL is a membership site for influencers who want to write words that move people.” I’m a member – it’s a great investment!

I found treasure at She Speaks. Has God led you to yours?

Grateful Friday

“Give thanks to the Lord, for he is good; his love endures forever.” 1 Chronicles‬ ‭16:34‬ ‭NIV‬‬

This month I’m giving thanks for:

Blessings. Sometimes when you’re not looking, God will send a blessing that leaves you in complete awe. I’m so thankful for certain abundance He sent my way which I never saw coming. Then my husband surprised me with the DVD set of The Book of Negroes which became one of my favorite TV movies when it ran earlier this year. Yep, even thankful for that – and him.

She Speaks 2015. I mentioned this conference, hosted by Proverbs 31 Ministries, in earlier posts, and now I can say it was ABSOLUTELY AWESOME. The people, the Word, the worship, and the learning – it all left me changed, charged, and ready to embark on this ministry path. I’ll be highlighting my experience all September here on New Day, so be sure to come back and read all about it!

At She Speaks with Lysa TerKeurst of Proverbs 31 Ministries
At She Speaks with Lysa TerKeurst of Proverbs 31 Ministries.

Life. I know that’s a bit general and can cover the two points above and EVERYTHING else, but news of a family member’s illness, or hearing about the sudden passing of a hometown friend will make you stop and think… I am so blessed and I am so thankful for each and every day. It grieves my heart to see people taking life for granted, living recklessly and without heed to wisdom. Friends, only GOD knows the end of our days. You can’t waste time by engaging in foolish behavior. All we have is now. Be thankful, live with purpose, show compassion to others. When you wake up each morning, consider who you want to be rather than what you need to do. How will your worship form today? Will you be in prayer, or will you be in judgement of everyone? Make each NOW count.

Lastly, I’m thankful for you. I appreciate the support of this space and all your helpful feedback. Pressing forward to new things!

What’s on your grateful list?